Today was the day of Roger's funeral, which considering the awful weather, was very well attended. The day started with a short commital service at Brimington Crematorium, following by a memorial service at Bakewell Parish Church at 1130. Such was the weather and the lack of parking due to being market day in Bakewell, that many mourners arrived at the church up to half an hour late. Here is a copy of my reading, which many of you who knew Roger well will understand regarding food intake.
ROGER MERCER, THE LOMAS
CONNECTION AND FOOD
Roger and my
late husband Richard first met at the fledgling Crich Tramway Museum
in the late 1950's. They soon became firm friends and Roger was a
regular for Sunday tea at Richard's family home, where apparently he
always ate the most. They shared a love of trams and had a special
affinity with tram Sheffield 264, which they helped to acquire for
the museum. Another shared interest was in 'bus spotting' and having
a pint or two. Richard and Roger travelled to see Europen tramways in
the 1960's.
I meet Roger
in 1967 just prior to marrying Richard and several visits to
Sheffield were undertaken in the early 1970's to see the buses.
These visits always included a meal at an Indian Restaurant on
Eccleshall Road, where Roger and I ahd the Mulligatawny Soup and
usually had a fight to try and gain the others slice of lemon. On one
occasion I was so successful that the lemon landed in his shirt cuff
leaving us in a fit of giggles which lasted the whole meal.
When we had
our children, there was less time for bus spotting, but Crich was
always a meeting point and Roger used to come to our house for
dinner, where he would always have 2nds and even 3rds if available.
When Martin, our first son was almost 2, Roger came for dinner and
beforehand, Richard and Roger went out for a walk on a bright, cold
day with Roger propelling the pushchair so enthusiastically that when
they reached the old spoil heap of Ripley Pit he pushed Martin all
the way to the top to admire the view. I have a photo to prove it ( see below).
Richard
retired from full time work and they both used to meet on Thursdays
once a fortnight and go off bus spotting all over the Midlands and
these days out always included a Chinese buffet and a few pints! I
think we all know Roger could eat for England, but never seemed to
get any fatter.
Richard went
into hospital in October 2011 and was there for 6 months before he
died and Roger was a faithful visitor once a fortnight travelling all
the way from Bakewell to Derby by bus to have an hour or so with
Richard and then return back to Bakewell - visits which Richard
looked forward to and much appreciated. Roger always made sure he
left the hospital in time to call for a pint and a Chinese Buffet in
Derby before catching the 5pm bus home.
I like to
think that whereever they are now they will be in a place with lots
of interesting buses to spot, pints to drink and a Chinese Buffets on
every corner.
Rest in
peace Roger.
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| Roger with Martin on the way to Ripley Pit |
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| Martin on the pit heap pushed up there by Roger |
